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A man who is looking for a man
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Age: 75, Height: 6' 01" (185 cm), Weight: 195 lbs (88 kg)
Where I Live:
USA >> New Hampshire >> Manchester
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It`s been a very interesting journey so far and I`ve met some great men along the way, but the-binat ion of the right guy, the right time and the right chemistry is still ahead. I also really do trust that, despite the odds, the Universe will work this out. I am writing this ad just in case the Universe is conspiring to have that one guy in a million stumble upon it. It`s an interesting and actually-forting thought isn`t it? If we are meant to connect, there`s very likely nothing we can do to prevent it from happening. So, with that optimistic thought in mind, here`s a little background: I look forward to the day that I am in a full,-mitted, monogamous, loving friendship with another masculine man, close to my age who lives reasonably nearby and who is ready for a honest, mutual, grown-up relationship. Clearly my sexual orientation is homosexual but equally clear, I don`t feel drawn to what could be described as a gay life. I am not buried deep in the closet but I haven`t marched in a parade yet either. I live alone in Southern NH and have three grown children that I am very close to. I am successful professional, 6`1", 195lbs, reasonably good-looking, short blond hair, trim beard, blue eyes and happy to share a picture. I workout four or five times a week, have an average, beefy build, and don`t smoke. I am masculine, thoughtful, kind, funny and spiritual. In many ways, for the right guy, I am one in a million too. If you`re still with me, here are some of those things I am looking for. A scratchy chin to rub against, a neck to smell, boxer shorts and hairy thighs, veins on the back of a hand to trace with my finger, the nape of a neck to shave, jeans to unbutton and slip my hand into, shoulders to massage, vulnerabilities to understand and protect, t-shirts to share, feet to play footsies with, special anniversaries to remember, an extended family to get to know and love, a thin gold chain nestled in chest hair, white socks that aren`t mine left on the floor and interests or passions that I don`t fully understand but admire. I am looking for someone to bump legs with at the movies and to wait for at the airport. Someone to tell me that I have a nose hair that needs to be trimmed, someone to hold hands with on a long ride, someone to laugh with, do errands for and send flowers to. I am ready to find someone to rub my head when I`m weary, plan a vacation with when we`ve been working to hard, and ask advice from when the next step isn`t clear. I want to fall in love with someone I can buy presents, order a CD or buy warm gloves for. Someone who will appreciate my time on the Stairmaster, tell me which tie looks best and kindly let me know when I need to loose five pounds. Someone who will also know when to tell me the Stairmaster can wait, for no special reason, surprise me with the "perfect tie" and reassures me that the five pounds don`t much matter. I`d like to be with someone who laughs at my jokes first, because he loves me and, second, because he really thinks they`re funny. I want to meet the guy who will love and worry about my kids with me, who will care about how my day went and who will let me cheer him on enthusiastically from the bleachers. I want to be with someone I feel proud of and someone who is proud of me. I am ready to meet someone I can trust with my imperfections and someone who will trust me with his. I want to settle in with someone I can be a kid with and someone I can grow old with. I want to build a deep and sustaining friendship that-es only with time and share a love that endures beyond time. And, finally, I believe this is all possible. I believe we are surrounded with miracles even if we don`t always pay attention. I believe that "one in a million" events do happen. I believe that the man meant for me may have just stumbled upon this ad. And, finally, I believe we both know that there`s only one way to find out! I look forward to it.
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