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A man who is currently single and looking for a man

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Age: 61, Height: 5' 11" (180 cm), Weight: 135 lbs (61 kg), Body Type: athletic, Ethnicity: white / european

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 USA  >>  Arkansas  >>  Little Rock  >>  North Little Rock

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Movie Nut In Search of a Bolt I`m a smooth gay white male with an athletic build. I`ve got broad shoulders and a narrow waist (waist size: 29). I do strength training 3-4 times a week and carefully watch my diet. I`m a "normal," down-to-earth guy-- sincere, honest, open and loyal. I don`t play games and do not want to be with a guy who does. I`m masculine but not macho. And I don`t flame. I`m fairly well-educated (my B.A. is from Emory [psychology], my first M.A. is from the University of Richmond [psychology], my second M.A. is from the University of Arkansas, Fayetteville [English literature], and my Ph.D. coursework is in Renaissance narrative poetry) but I`m not necessarily looking for that level of education in my partner. I`m not attracted to "brainy" guys any more than I am to guys who got a high school education. Some of the stupidest people I know have their Ph.D.s; common sense, a level head, a good sense of humor, and a good dose of compassion are much more valuable to me than a string of letters after your name. I have studied a variety of religions and beliefs (and practiced some as well), including Buddhism, Taoism, Hinduism, Shinto & Egyptian beliefsystems. I consider myself to be a Christian although I do not attend services regularly. I am, nevertheless, a spiritual person and meditate frequently. I enjoy the Arts, live theater, movies, listening to music, astronomy, & traveling. (I suppose my most interesting "trip" involved the three months I stayed in Amsterdam at the Hotel Bema, which is run by a Rastafarian named Terry. Modesty and lack of space prohibit me from telling more.) I also enjoy snuggling in on rainy days, Chinese food, candlelight, sci-fi, crisp mornings, Lord of the Rings, anything blue, romantic dinners, thunderstorms, a popping fire, & being held. Staying home, cooking dinner and then curling up on the sofa with a DVD can be heaven if you`re doing it with the right guy. But I also like to go to clubs and listen to live bands (dancing optional and only after a few drinks). I am political-- left. I strongly adhere to the principles of diversity and compassion, so, if you are a neo-conservative, be warned. I`m looking for a guy relatively close to my age (+ or -, say, 6 years)who is sincere, intellectually curious, self-reflective, comfortable with himself and his sexuality, and who is looking for (or open to) a steady, long-term loving partnership. If you`ve read this far and haven`t been turned off yet, please drop me a line-- chances are we have a lot more in common.

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