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Age: 41, Height: 5' 11" (180 cm), Weight: 200 lbs (91 kg)

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 USA  >>  Illinois  >>  Chicago  >>  West Suburbs

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Looking for emotional intimacy... Basically I`m one huge paradox, changing from one day to the next. Hopeless Romantic set on finding that proverbial soulmate whom I will know inside and out, be able to read every move, and not sleep without saying goodnight to... Bitter Cynic who is convinced that I will never find who is not wrapped up in themselves and who will truly understand why I am the way I am. Social Maniac who needs to be needed and loves being the center of attention and making people laugh... Social Recluse who needs to fall off the face of the planet every now and then. Overly Ambitious but Sadly Unmotivated... Completely Independent, but sometimes Regretfully So... Ridiculously Humble about weaknesses, but Disgustingly Conceited in my ability to understand them... An Open Book to those around me, but without revealing who I really am... I am an very interpersonal individual. I find my joy in taking care of those around me. This has helped me develop such AMAZING friendships, but at the same time has left me at times terribly lonely, always hoping for a connection that perhaps doesn`t even exist. I serve as the support for those around me, and I`m (almost) ready to let someone help support me. It is important that you know I am "in the closet" due to conflicting beliefs and not quite sure what I am looking for, but don`t let that scare you aware from at least seeing if we might become friends! I am not looking for parties, clubs, or superficial flirtations. On the outside I`m witty, sarcastic, care-free, outgoing, and love board games, food, classical music, thunderstorms, camping, and aimless drives. On the inside I`m quiet, reflective, and want for nothing more than to hold someone and let him know how much I love him. P.S. Don`t be turned away by the lack of picture- it`s not an attempt to conceal my hideous appearance- just not comfortable posting it around...just drop me a line if you want to see it...

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