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A man who is currently single and looking for a man

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Age: 58, Height: 6' 01" (185 cm), Weight: 205 lbs (93 kg), Body Type: fit, Ethnicity: white / european

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 USA  >>  Arizona  >>  Phoenix

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Looking for something more , I like looking up at he stars,on a cold clear night, I like to go away from the city where I can see them all and take in the breath taking view. I like camping too, and sitting around the campfire listening to story's told by my friends and listening to the logs crack as they burn, the smell of the smoke in the air, the forest smells, the crickets and frogs singing, and the night bird sounds in the trees, and watching the fire fly's rise up off the hot coals as they fly way up into the air high up to the tops of the trees like a wish or a prayer on it's way to the heavens. and if I stare into the fire just long enough my imagination begins to tell a story from the shadows dancing across the trees and the forest takes on a new life of it's own, but find this is something to be shared with my arm around someone special to snuggle up to and enjoy it with, and we can point at the stars and name them, and find them again in your eyes, stars stolen from heaven. I have an adventurous spirit and would like to try new things, I like traveling to interesting places and find the places where you have to explore the most entertaining. And like trying new foods restaurants and recipes, My musical taste is all over the place, I can listen to rock all the way down the spectrum to classical and tribal music, I have a spiritual side as well. I love scifi fantasy but also adventure and dramas on TV, the kind that make you cry, even though I try to hide it LOL, I got something in my eye! You must be able to have a moral compass someone I can look up to and be proud of and call my hero, I am a die-hard romantic, and I must have depth and meaning in my relationships. I like heart-to-heart exchanges that explore personal philosophies, goals, ethical dilemmas, and the meanings behind art, music, poetry or some other abstract topic. I am emotionally expressive and want my partner to share his genuine self with me. I also admire people who make plans and schedules. And I am attracted to a mate with a fixed moral compass. Moreover, love must be embedded in a stable long-term relationship ultimately with a march down the aisle. Most important, to balance my imaginative and supple spirit, I gravitate to people who know their own mind, make decisions with wisdom, focus on one thing at a time and can provide an emotionally stable home, I do pull my fair share and have a strong sense of Honor to do so, Honesty and Family values are very important to me, So I would not be interested in open relationships or outside intimacy within a relationship, And I can be very sensitive to my mate, communicating my emotions clearly and tenderly. I am imaginative. and emotionally expressive and share my feelings. The big picture is what interests me most, and I like to assemble facts and focus on larger concepts. When I make decisions, I often think things through very carefully, weighing all the options before deciding what to do. People are important to me and I prefer to build intimate attachments with others, connecting on a deeply personal level, Agreeable and unassuming, I can be very intuitive, and I generally prefer win-win situations that protect social harmony. I am very good at reading people, and this includes facial expressions as well as vocal inflections, I tend to be calm and relaxed, social and interested in home and family. Do you like to fight?, argue?, complain?, say things you don't mean?, cuss at someone you care about?, control them?, tear down their self esteem?, cut them off?, dismiss their opinions or ideas?, shout or yell or act demanding? does that sound like love to you? Speaking of Honesty, Does an Honest person tell you things that would seem they have problems in their life?, How many people lie to build them selves up?, maybe you should think about how much truth they told you before you reject them, after all who said honestly has to come with perfection? Go hang out with that liar who has no problems, see how fun that is. What are you willing to risk for love?, are you willing to risk everything to be happy or nothing to be unhappy? I take dating seriously and I am not amused by people who appear false or devious.

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