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A man who is currently single and looking for a man
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Age: 38, Height: 6' 00" (183 cm), Weight: 250 lbs (113 kg), Body Type: a few extra pounds, Ethnicity: white / european
Where I Live:
USA >> South Carolina >> Charleston >> Moncks Corner
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I am looking for someone to love me as I am.... I am a simply complex person and I have many goals and aspirations. If you speak to any of my friends they will say, He sees the positive in life, or at least strives to, and keeps himself completely optimistic throughout all obstacles in life. I always try to see the beauty in the most mundane of things, and see poetry in others' eyes. I see myself as not a consequence of my own actions, but as a result of the love of others. Many have a misconstrued understanding of commitment and love. If you have read this far then here is what I seek in a match: For the most part right now I seem to want to run across the person that understands me, who knows why I choose one star out of billions to adore or why I smile at the most random times. He will definitely be a blessing to my life and I am so ready to see where a relationship can take us. We will share so many of the same interests, hobbies, and qualities. I understand him and he understands me. For such a long time I have been setting myself up for disappointment after disappointment, and now after a long wait I am ready to have him in my life. I have been so patient to have that someone in my life that I have longed, and needed. He will have a special place in my heart and he surely will know who he is... The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company...a home...a person. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past...we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one thing we have, and that is our attitude...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it! Although we may not like, much less feel love toward, everyone we meet, we can at least try to be kind and courteous to those people we don't instinctively like. We can reflect that these people are also looking for happiness and trying to avoid suffering, just like ourselves. In this way, although we still may not like them, it is easier to act pleasantly toward them and to avoid creating any negative karma. Developing the habit of being kind and loving towards others creates the karma for us to find love and happiness ourselves... Also I am NOT deaf and do not know much sign language but am very eager to learn and love the right person....
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