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Age: 61, Height: 6' 00" (183 cm), Weight: 220 lbs (100 kg)
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Hey, wassup? Gender: Male Age: 39 Location: Minneapolis, MN, USA The Basics Identifies As: Gay Ethni city: White/European, Mixed/Multi, Hispanic/Latino, Black, Other Body type: A few extra pounds, Stocky Wrestler/Football Player Type build Height: 6`0 (1.83 m) Weight: 2200lbs (0 kg) Physical Description... Hot, stocky, confident and secure Cubbie. Currently I`m clean-shaven, but sometimes, I sport a sexy Moustache & Goatee. I`m NOT Mama Cass, but if you`re looking for Karen Carpenter, kindly move on and look elsewhere. How about this, I sit on your face and you guess my weight. -) Outness: Totally About My Ideal Match Seeking A: Male Identifies As: Gay And Who`s: All over the map/Butch How Out: Totally, To some people Ethnicity: Not important, White/European, Mixed/Multi Tattoos: Not important, Here and there Piercings: Not important, Just the usual places Smoking: Only when intoxicated, Yes, Trying to quit Relationships Looking For: Relationship, Long-term relationship, Sex, Friendship, Support, Hiking partner or whatever, Something online Relationship Desired: Monogamous Relationship Situation: Single Been in an LTR: No Wants Children: Want to have or adopt kids Tastes Favorite Movie: This is a totally unfair question...arthouse/independent type movies(films to those of you who are more fawfawfaw snooty serious heheheh)Maurice, Auntie Mame, Color Purple, there`re too many to pick just one, love horror/scifi/fantasy/adventure, thank God for VHS and DVD hehehe Favorite Music: Sade, Aretha, Chaka, Billie, Ella, Nancy, Dinah, Sarah, Mel, Nat, Frank, Joni Mitchell, Dance Music Music I Don`t Like: Any type of music which doesn`t inspire dancing or positive feelings. Favorite Book: Almost anyhting Stephen King, David Sedaris, Anne Rice Favorite Vacation Spot: Amsterdam, Europe, Mediterranian, Someplace sunny, warm with lots of beautiful men Favorite Food: Anything, but bland mushy old folks food. In My Own Words: Hi! I`m looking for someone to unwind with, someone who gets "IT" and who can laugh in spite of it. I love to laugh and cuddle and sometimes just sit quietly with a really great guy. I deserve a man in my life who doesn`t have to passive-aggressively fish for-pliments and or my emotional and physical affections. If you want to be touched, then touch me. If you want to be held and cuddled, then offer that to me. If you just want to have a wild, sweaty, make-out session, fall asleep in each other`s arms, wake up and do it all over again, Hey, that`s cool too! However, understand that we have to truly trust and respect one another AS FRIENDS FIRST! I`m not Mother Theresa or Albert Einstein, nor am I the town tramp or the village idiot either. On that note, If you`ve got "ISSUES" with "All that dirty touchin` and Ah Lahhhked it! Ah lahhhked it!" If someone has to use you, manipulate you, lie to you, cheat on you, steal from you, mentally, verbally, physically and emotionally abuse you in order for you to feel that there`s some merit to your relationship, you don`t know what real love is and you probably never will. There are some guys who, for whatever reason, actually get off on inviting that sick, dysfunctional crap in upon themselves. They are the sort of people who see genuine affection and caring as a sign of weakness, but guess what? I`M NOT ONE OF THOSE GUYS AND I DON`T DESERVE THAT CRAP IN MY LIFE! NOBODY DOES! Learn how to laugh and genuinely have a good time without all the damn trauma and drama, geeeesh! Warmth, sophistication,-passion, a keen intellect, a quick wit, a randy sense of humor and an adventerous spirit are not only what I have to offer, but also what I expect from potential friends as well as lovers. If you`re an adult who`s secure within his own Mentality and Emotionality AS WELL AS his "Sexuality" and (ahem) "masculinity" (whatever THAT means), and you`re NOT into games, let`s meet and see where it goes. Take a chance. Friends and or Lovers, either way you`ve got nothing to loose and everything to gain. I`m well worth the investment and so are you! Peace, Officekub -) Personality Scene: Bear, Blue collar, Circuit boy, Conservative, Hippie/Granola, Homebody, Jock/Sporty, Lipstick lesbian, Suburban, Urban hipster Morning or Evening: Night Butch/Femme: All over the map Shyness Factor: In between Preferred Place to Live: Big City/Gay Mecca The Rest Religion: Protestant Star Sign: Virgo Job: Admin / Retail/Living,Loving,Learning Education: Some college Pets: Dog HIV Status: Negative Drinking: Socially Piercings: Just the usual places Tattoos: No In My Free Time... Spending time in places like Barnes & Noble either in the book or the music section. I could spend a whole day at a place like that , or the library, or a museum like the Art Institute. I love singing in the shower, in the car, at piano bars, weddings, funerals even. I like having small parties, where I can cook and entertain for friends and new acquaintances. Long walks on sunny days, and even longer make out sessions during thunderstorms. I love words. I`m not a grammarian by any stretch of the imagination, but I love words and reading.
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