1.
I am HIV-negative, smooth-skinned, curly gray hair Hi there! Thanks for visiting my profile. Here goes maybe the longest description in the history of on-line cruising, but I believe that stating specific, detailed goals brings specific, detailed results!
I'm looking for a 'playmate' in the greater Los Angeles area who's aggressively HIV-negative (regular testing and SAFE playing ONLY).
I'd like to find a h0rny buddy to have some hot, safe fun with. An ongoing thing would be great, as long as it doesn't get all gunked up with drama and emo.
I am HIV-negative, smooth-skinned, curly gray hair, goatee, 5'7, 265 lbs., steel-blue eyes. I keep my pubic hair closely trimmed but not shaven.
I have a very intense sportswear & white briefs f*t!sh particularly gym or soccer uniforms with white briefs or jock underneath. Don't ask me why, but white socks with colored stripes are really sexy too! (As long as they are clean and not stinky!! NOT into that!!!)
Generally speaking, I find myself attracted to CLEAN, well-groomed, 20-something to 50-something Asians, Latinos and other light-brown men. I especially like short, smooth guys who are just a little bit chubby -- nice soft tummy and a pudgy, round bvtt Especially in white briefs! But I only mean that in very general terms; it really depends on the person when you get right down to it.
--- What I'd like to do with you: ---
Long cuddling - hugging - holding close - sweet kisses on forehead, face, neck, lips, ears - laying my head on your chest and hearing you breathe and feeling your heart beat against the side of my face.
Body rubs --- back, legs, bvtt ... other things! -- Foot massages
Deep, long, intense kissing ... w/ and w/out tongues.......
Long, hot, athletic-wear and underwear [email] scenes - cuddling, rubbing, stroking, kissing and l!ck!ng each other's briefs and jocks; underwear exhibitionism-voyeurism -- you show me yours, I'll show you mine, watching you put on and take off briefs, gym shorts, soccer kit, etc.
Long, slow, intense [email] sex - giving and receiving, especially 69-ing. Maybe r!mm!ng if the mood is right.
I am never in a hurry -- I always like my sexual encounters to be long, hot and relaxed. To the extent of, you know, going into another dimension or altered state if you will. But to that end, I do not drink or do drugs, because it seems that it always becomes about the chemicals. I'm on a natural high!
On to non-sexual stuff, I like going to the park and shooting some hoops (for the exercise benefit only, am not the least bit competitive or a 'jock'); sitting at the beach for a good long time in awe of the Great Waters; taking unhurried walks; driving along the Coast; dining out in non-trendy, non-expensive (but good and interesting and off-the-beaten-path) restaurants; watching movies, either in the theater or at home, with a definite focus on comedies and non-gory vintage sci-fi and suspense; listening to classical music; roaming around in thrift shops for funky bargains. Basically, I'm open to new experiences and will try just about anything once if it seems fun and interesting and non-fatal!
If any of this sounds good to you, give me a shout-out!
Cheers from FairchubbyBear!
Age: 53 |
seeks gay dating in
Miracle Mile,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
2.
My basic (and verifiable) stats are: WM, 6`1 My basic (and verifiable) stats are: WM, 6`1" (186 cm), 185 lbs. (79.4 kg), 8 cut inches (20.3 cm), salt-n-pepper hair, blue eyes, clean-shaven, healthy/DDF/HIV-. Now here`s some subjective stuff which I believe to be true, but about which "reasonable men can differ," (as the courts said about the Florida ballots): youthful looking and acting, attractive, friendly, outgoing, masculine, sensible, fair-minded, mature, nice, considerate. I`m a discreet person, can keep in confidence what I know about other people, who10ds not to bvtt into other peoples` lives, and usually succeed in being non-judgmental about how others conduct themselves. I think I`ve got a good education, a good sense of humor, a good personality, and a good outlook on life. Goody-goody, however, I`m not! At other times and in other places, I had more than my share of social activity (gay and straight), and I still enjoy a good time with good folks. But I`ve always been a person who enjoys and values his quiet, private times, too. As I`ve gotten older, I`ve found I seek and appreciate those quiet times even more. (But I`ll never be a hermit or recluse.) I`m a little bit of a contradiction in that I`m a very energetic and enthusiastic person, who enjoys taking on and completing projects. But my big personal obsession is reading; sometimes I actually read the mail order catalogs if nothing else is available. Outdoors activities I most prefer are hiking and biking. Indoor activities include movies, theater, opera, ballet (No, it`s not sissy!) and stuff that`s none of your business unless you`re doing it with me. I like to travel and visit other places. It seems like I`ve made more international trips than domestic1s. (I`ve been to China 16 times, for example.) What I`m looking for is, in any order, more good friends, great sex, a special somebody in my life. Except for friends, who can be in any and all shapes and sizes, my preferences are for someone who is Caucasian/Oriental/Hispanic, in the 21-55 age range (does that cover the waterfront or what?), attractive/good-looking/cute,slender/average/toned/muscular. But not fat, obese, chubby. Masculine, friendly, easy-going. Probably the most important personal quality I like and value in another person is that he be1 of the good guys. These are my druthers, and I`ve got enough sense to know that a non-perfect guy like me shouldn`t insist on perfection in someone else. And I don`t, but there`s no harm in day-dreaming out loud, is there? :-)
Age: 60 |
seeks gay dating in
Madison Park,
Seattle Tacoma,
Washington (WA)
USA
3.
I`M A HONEST, SINCERE, CLEAN, LOVING, ROMANTIC, AMOROUS, CARING, AFFECTIONATE TOP MAN WHO LOOK FOR A I`M A HONEST, SINCERE, CLEAN, LOVING, ROMANTIC, AMOROUS, CARING, AFFECTIONATE TOP MAN WHO LOOK FOR A 50 TO 95 YEAR OLD chubby, BEAR, SANTA, GRIZZLY AND fat b0tt0m MAN
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Surquillo,
Lima,
LimaPERU
4.
Always hungry for Daddies` c0cks & cvm :-P *** EMAIL &/OR IM to either yngman4oldertops on the HOT & MAIL [----] COM &/or on the YAH & OO [----] CA `cause I CANNOT READ MESSAGES on this website even the subject is cut in half *** .......... Into MASCULINE TOP MEN OLDER than myself (40-50`s +) Prefer BUTCHY MEN in shape or preferably anywhere from strongly built, to muscular, to bearish, to husky men as well as a little to moderately chubby but NO fatS (such as 300-500lbs !) I have a thing 4 all types of MANWEAR, UNIFORMS & BOOTS, mostly COWBOYS, PILOT, COP, Blue-Collar, Security Agent, Military/OFFICER, Trooper, UPS... as well as Biker-wear, Jeans/501`s, Tie-Suits, Tuxedo... .......... I am actually deeply heartbroken and so... MOST-ONLY looking for sex encounters although there`s always space & time for affection, overnight cuddles & romance ;-) .......... Acting => pretending ==> LIE ..... So don`t act st8 `cause U r not ! Masculine, queer or everything in-between ; hold your head up high `cause you are not living a lie !!!
Age: 34 |
seeks gay dating in
Downtown Montreal,
QuebecCANADA
5.
I`m a native Texan who`s come home. White, attractive, mature, friendly, masculine, 6`1", 187 lbs., 8" cut, blue eyes, salt-n-pepper hair, youthful in appearance and actions, top. Not attracted to only1 type: can like boyish, smooth, blond guy as much as "maturish," hairy, brunet guy. But not romantically or sexually attracted to fat, obese, chubby guys or older guys who look old. (Sorry, but might as well be honest.) Open to any experience or encounter that comes my way, including LTR.
Age: 60 |
seeks gay dating in
Meyerland - Bellaire,
Houston,
Texas (TX)
USA
6.
big bears fan gay married man who is out to wife and kids.
It’s a difficult time and my wife and I are confused and conflicted.
We both do not want to divorce and tear our family apart. But I need help getting thru this. I am attracted to large, older masculine men. Anyone who would like to be a mentor, friend, companion, father figure to me would be helping me out. I am not into jumping from bed to bed and putting notches in my bedpost. The most ideal situation would be to meet another gay married chubby man who is interested in friendship and possible relationship.
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Rockford,
Illinois (IL)
USA
8.
Build 4 comfort, not 4 speed. But its changing... Where do1 begin answering these without sounding like a used car salesman? If I was a used car i would probably be an old Cadillac, large but a gem to the right driver.
YES, I am fat. No, not chubby or stocky, just plain fat. That only means I’m a bit more of a person than most of you pretty boys can handle. However, I do not intend to be this big for the rest of my life. Since April 2008 my personal trainer will see to that with his 6 times a week t0rtvr* sessions... As for the name, NO, I’m not a doctor so do not ask me to take your temperature.
I`m shy but can hold a good front if need be. I do not like clubs and pubs. Rather enjoy cooking at home, watching a good DVD or eating out in1 of our fine restaurants. As long as they do healthy cooking...
Someone told me once that I have a big body to keep the big heart... Don’t know about that… I always though it’s caused they had a body spare when they gave them out so I got2 for the price of1.
Age: 31 |
seeks gay dating in
Durban,
Kloof,
KznSOUTH AFRICA
9.
I am a fat gay guy from India. I am simple natured I am a fat gay guy from India. I am simple natured, trustworthy, and down-to-earth. Although I am 35, 5.8 in height, 110+ kg. I am looking for him over the globe (may be he will drop from heaven1 day ;-)). First of all, I like guys who have striking, beautiful eyes. I like beautiful handsome, muscled, masculine chaser guys aged between 18 to 40. I like smooth skin. I like guys who are top and versatile (i like act like lesbian in bed with b0tt0m guys). my email is [email]
OLDER chubby AND HAIRY GUYS PLEASE DO NOT BOTHER.
Please remember that, I am a chubby guy looking for sexy handsome, well-built, young chaser. my email: megh.malhar2 [at the rate][----] [----] com
Age: 35 |
seeks gay dating in
Bangalore,
KarnatakaINDIA
10.
NY2LA - Just moved to LA from NY I just moved back to LA and am kinda lost without my friends, and the things we used to do together, so I am looking to make some new friends.
My Name is Kris, I’m 37 (Tho I dont think look it), White, 6` Weight: 190-195lbs, Dark Brown & Short Spiky Hair, Hazel Eyes, very str8 acting and appearing, and have a little hair on my chest. I have the typical average build, tho its not the LA Swimmers or Gym god bod, I’m not overweight/chubby or fat. I guess the easiest way to describe myself is that that I have a pretty average build and look maybe 29-32. I havent been to the gym in the past 2 years, tho once I get situated here in town, I plan to spend a couple days there a week, get some shape back into me, and drop back down to about 170 and a 34 waist. Right now im a 36, and I cant for the life of me figure out how I got there! Other then that I`m pretty laid back, friendly and out-going, loyal, dependable, responsible. God I sound like my dad. LoL, I guess what Im trying to say is that I’m kewl with just about any atmosphere – be it doing stuff at home with 1 or 2 friends, or going out and doing the dinners, movies, and clubs. I’m easy to please. It’s the company that makes me happy! I am in the music/club industry and10d to spend a lot of time in the studio working, and when I’m not there I like to check out what everyones doing online, or sit back and watch CSI or 24. I started smoking about 2-3 months ago, though more occasionally now and should probabaly quit. I drink sociably, and am not afraid to get absolutely totally shit faced plastered, which is fun every now and then.
My relationship history is really pretty simple, Im single. Ive had 2 BFriends, my first for 8 yrs and my last for 4 yrs, which ended 2 yrs ago in1 of those days of our lives events. He was 26 and enjoyed making me miserable. After that experience, I guess I just havent been focused on another relationship. So for the past 2 and a Half years I have remained single and celibate (other then the occasional help myself program). My first lover who was the world to me, was killed in 2001 by a drunk driver. I mention this because its a part of me I think defines who I am. Lets see, other then that Im versatile and have no expectations, other then like I said - hoping to meet some new friends and get situated here in LA, so I can focus on my career and and then possibly finding another special someone. Im a little discouraged at being 37 now but cant complain. Ive had a great life and spent 8 of the best years with my best friend in the entire world. Dont let my age scare you, I dont think I am anything like others my age, I cant say that I really feel 37, am Im still to much of a kid to act it. Im still a club kid at heart. If I was to define what my TYPE is I guess Id have to say I prefer smooth, and slender, sk8ter/twink type, but hey its not a Must. Besides I don’t have preferences for FRIENDSHIPS.
OK, About being gay. I am NOT OUT, unless when its ok to be, and even then I dont think people can tell. In a way it just makes me uncomfortable, plus Ive got my career, and unfortunately, I dont need the attention. Even tho I COULD be OUT, its just not my thing, tho I`m not opposed to those who are. I think this is the closest I get to telling people Im gay, which is probably why I dont know that many gay people. I’m very closeted out in public. When I was in a relationship, most people thought we were brothers. Youd be amazed at how well that just seemed to work for us. Lets see, what else. I don`t like to play games, or get caught up in the whole hit the internet for sex thing, tho I think its pretty awesome way to make some new friends, and get to know people first before you find out their into some really off the wall shit, or they owe everybody money.
As for Sex Im versatile, experimental, and am Drug/Disease free, safe, and HIV-NEG, (And plan to stay that way). I enjoy cuddling, kissing and exploring new things. Im a hopeless romantic and dedicate my existance to my music, my significant other and my friends. Let me go back and define experimental – it does not include, leather, [email] piercing, or any of the freaky shit there shouldnt even be a name for it kinda stuff. Believe me, Ive been to Germany, Netherlands, Australia, and some other pretty way out countries that have some pretty off the wall stuff going on there, then again I guess LA has its share of scary shit too.
So, there it is. if your interested in possibly a basic friendship, with NSA, maybe someone to get to know and someday hang out with and do the whole dinner, clubs, movies thing, hit me up and we can get to know each other. I’m even kewl with just chatting online, again - NO Expectations. If you got a pic you want to send that would be awesome, Please just make sure its yours, I dont10d to take alot of pictures, they just never seem to make me look like me. PS this1 was taken 4/20/08 on my cell phone at Disneyland with my mom, she is my world. The rest are of me doing my thing - Told you I dont take good pics.
Peace Out ~~
Kris
Age: 37 |
seeks gay dating in
North Hollywood,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
11.
muscular, sexy, big guy I`m handsome, warm, smart, erudite and charismatic. Monogamous by nature when dating, selective, non promiscuous - and not into those who are - and safe when just having fun. I10d to be very attracted to handsome chubby, fat, or muscular guys from 200 to 350 pounds plus, however, my taste is eclectic and its the chemistry and connection that counts. The Xtra junk in a man`s trunk gets me to the buffet table but its the light in a guy`s eyes and his soulful heart that keeps me coming back for more.
Age: 34 |
seeks gay dating in
Hollywood,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
12.
I am Learning to Play Piano My name is Mike. I was born in Cleveland, Ohio. I have lived and worked all over the country. I currently live in Florida. My biggest thing lately is learning to read muscial notation and play the piano. I have an M-Audio Keystation 61es hooked up to my Mac and use GarageBand to record and arrange my tunes. I then upload them to MacJams[----] for people to rip on. It`s good, clean fun. If you know how to read music and could help me learn, that would be so freakin` cool. My favorite styles of music are "Classical", Rock, Blues, Bluegrass, Punk, Alternative ... well, pretty much anything. I would like to immitate Rick Wakeman who is my piano idol. I wish I could make my fingers do what his fingers do. I also program on my Mac and sell the software over the internet. It`s not a huge amount of money but it very satisfying to know my brain energy has spread through the internet. Cool. I have a gigantic cat. He`s a Maine Coon and he weighs in at about 30 pounds. He`s a very mellow cat. He can play piano, too. Seriously, I taught him pay the keyboard for treat. It`s funny. AS FOR MY PARTNER, he will be a BIG guy with boyish good looks, a quick smile, AND NO FACIAL HAIR. I am not into people who dislike animals and children or who don`t smile. However, once the bedroom door shuts, my partner will enjoy taking over complete control. I am very into BIG BIG guys who are just that, BIG not fat. BIG. You know who you are! chubby is good too. I just want my partner to be big enough to engulf me completely. I like big hugs too. I guess, I am just looking for a big ol` bear of a man. If you have those kind of physical attributes, you`ll defintely be on my radar. My perfect match will also enjoy all the same crap as I do and also have some new stuff for me to try out. Normally I don`t like doing domestic stuff like cleaning or laundry. However, should the right man come into my life, he will we-cared for. As long as he takes care of me, too! Be nice.
Age: 41 |
seeks gay dating in
Western Suburbs,
Ft Lauderdale,
Florida (FL)
USA
13.
Hi guys.. thanks for checking out my profile.. I am a 31 year old chubby bearish guy. I have black/g
Hi guys.. thanks for checking out my profile.. I am a 31 year old chubby bearish guy. I have black/grey hair, blue eyes 6` tall and and weigh about 250ish. Just looking for guys to hang out with and have some laughs/good times.
I am a bit of a sci-fi geek. I love the sci-fi channel. My favorite sci-fi show is Stargate, and star trek TNG. I love reading just finished the Hobbit for about the 10th time and working on the LOTR trilogy now. My favorite non sci-fi show has to be Alias.. that show kicks [email] .
More about me... I like to camp, kayak, read, watch movies, hang out, have a few beers, and go out all that fun stuff. I am very laid back go with the flow kind of guy. Don`t but myself on a schedule often.
I am really not looking for anything more than friends/ casual fun. But I am attracted to guys that are thin or average build. Twinks to muscle boys work for me. Not into men old enough to be my grandfather or my Dad as a rule... but rules are sometimes broken... depends on the guy. (BIG HINT.... I LIKE YOUNG LOOKING GUYS!!!)
I am planning a move soon, about 94% sure that I am moving to Charlotte NC.. I will keep you posted thanks!
Ok guys if you want to know anything else please feel free to ask..
Thanks
Ken
Age: 31 |
seeks gay dating in
Charlotte,
North Carolina (NC)
USA
14.
Well for the most part I`m the easiest person in the world to get along with unless you show me I ca Well for the most part I`m the easiest person in the world to get along with unless you show me I can`t trust you otherwise.... I don`t liek liars, and abusers but who does? I like to hang out with my friends, chat online, go Shopping (I think every gay man likes that), goto bars and clubs (even if I can`t drink I still have a good time), But I also like to sit around the house and watch movies and tv. I like just about any kind of music you can listen to but a select some. I`m looking for someone near my age, that is decent looking not slobby looking, someone athletic, average, slim... Not into chubby or fats sorry just not interested. I`m also looking for someone who isn`t big on looks too much, I also smoke but will consider quitting. I`m looking for friends, conversation, action, maybe a relationship further down the line.
Age: 20 |
seeks gay dating in
Harrisonburg,
Rural Area,
Virginia (VA)
USA
15.
im big daddy b0tt0m who likes cowboys! i like cowboys who ride hard & deep. i am chubby big daddy b0tt0m 6`3"300 living in monterey near salinas. talented lips and tongue and big fat [email] just made to ride[----]e to my place and lets ahve some buckin fun. im lubed and ready.i love to give relaxing body rub with my strong haqnds and lips and tongue.
Age: 60 |
seeks gay dating in
Pacific Grove,
Monterey,
California (CA)
USA
16.
I`m just a sweet, silly boy who grew up in a small town. I`m an extremely caring person who loves to I`m just a sweet, silly boy who grew up in a small town. I`m an extremely caring person who loves to laugh and10ds to overuse my cute little giggle. My friends have described me as a cute, sweet, happy-go-lucky guy with a heart of gold, and I would have to agree. I`ve worked very hard to be a good person and different from everyone else, and I am extremely proud of me. Hey, it`s not easy these days in gay society to have high morals and values and still have the energy to keep a smile on your face. Hehe. :-D
In my free time I really don`t go out much. Most gay men spend all their time partying, drinking, doing drugs and sleeping around, and that scene just isn`t for me, so I pretty much live in my own little happy world. Quick trips to Circuit City, a quick drive around town just listening to my favorite songs, or a trip into the city just to go through the Long John`s drive-through is what keeps me happy. Add a movie ever so often or a dinner out with a friend, and I`m good to go! The rest of the time I enjoy staying home and sometimes coming on here to see if I can meet some interesting people. Well, I ALWAYS meet interesting people, but that`s a whole different story. Hehe. :-)
When I come on here I come with hopes of finding my Mr. Right, but right now he seems more like Mr. Never-gonna-happen. Hehe. It`s not that I`m picky, it`s just that I know who I want (and I know who I don`t). b0tt0m line -- you don`t have to be a gorgeous millionaire (although it would be nice). ;-) My perfect man is a cute guy who is sweeter than pie and has a huge heart and doesn`t mind sharing it. He loves to laugh and is caring enough to do just about anything for someone in need. He`s not like everyone else and doesn`t mind being different, and he just wants to be with1 person for the rest of his life. A great smile and a wonderful sense of humor are2 of the best traits a guy can have to me, other than having excellent morals and values. In other words, I`m looking for a guy very similar to myself (but not myself; that would be too odd, hehe) :-D
I`m attracted to all types of guys. I like younger guys and older guys, skinny guys and chubby guys, guys with dark hair and guys with light hair. It all depends on what they are on the inside and how they use it. Whether it`s a slightly older, slightly chubby guy in a baseball hat and Khaki shorts, or a guy around my age who is 6`3" and wears flip-flops with cargo pants - it all depends on who you are on the inside and how you use it. So don`t rule yourself out by thinking you`re not my type, unless you`re old enough to be my father or you`re extremely obese (come on, everyone has their limits). :-)
I know I`m different, but honestly, that`s the only way I would have me. :-D
Age: 23 |
seeks gay dating in
Waco,
Texas (TX)
USA
17.
Fun and loving
Hey dudes
call me Edmon...29 years old; I am an honest, easy-going, and fun person to chill with. Looking for str8 acting, Bi-male, not effem, who would like a discreet partner. Prefer guys who are open-minded and honest, good looking between 20 to 28 years old, athletic or medium built. chubby or fat not included. I?m a telecomm engineer by profession. Watching live concert boosts my energy and listening to classical / romantic music gives serenity in my days work. Like to travel in exotic places, I?m liberal, kind hearted, luminous, faithful, trustworthy, practical and ambitious person. I have no faith in hypocrisy or liar. I believe that ?Life is what you make it?. You can e-mail at [email] Respond only to those who sent profile and picture.
Age: 29 |
seeks gay dating in
Manila,
ManilaPHILIPPINES
18.
kinky b0tt0m 5`6 155lb smooth,full beard,straight acting,bottom,clean d/d free,i like chubby guys,.i like to be fisted,i like chubby tv...i`m a truck driver so if U`r a fat man hairless is a plus or a hvng top that like to drill a clean man`s pvssy leave a msg,thx
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Dallas,
Texas (TX)
USA
20.
I`m shy at first! Looking for long-term relationships/dating guys ages 18 to 25 I`m part-time working and my last year of college. Even disabled with Cerebral Palsy I`m shy at first in my free time I enjoy video, & computer games, movies, watching TV, hangout with friends, Traveling. I looking someone who`s into my interest into Asians, Latinos, or White guys Slim, Skinny, Average, or Muscle. Sorry not into chubby, or fat guys it turn me off.
Age: 22 |
seeks gay dating in
Mission Viejo,
Orange County,
California (CA)
USA
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