1.
Searching for my Fella 47 yr old male, 5`6, 155 lb, Canadian gay male with brown hair (more pepper than salt) and brown eyes. I consider myself a down to earth average Joe who has been told is a nice guy who is easy on the eyes, masculine, youthful in appearance, passionate, laid back, fun, attentive, adaptable, having a witty - sometimes off the wall, dark (all in good fun - intension) sense of humor. I have a Gemini personality and am non political. Single ... dating .... and taking things in stride. I am a man who is encouraged by fate .. believing it can be helped along the way. It has taken some time .. but .. I am comfortable in my own skin and would not wish anything more or less in another person. Partially defining comfortable, I mean being a man with understanding of respect, trust, openness, responsibility, amicability, a reverence for life, with heart, love, humility and a sense of humor about it all. Comfortable .. in who you are .. and circumstance. I believe that the past is part of our greater whole and we should not shut the door, nor dwell in it, but move on constructively with the ability to laugh, accept and embrace life`s kindness. Don`t sweat the small stuff.... I am not monetarily wealthy, my wealth consists of doing the best with what I have to offer .... and that presently being .... myself. Recently out of the closet (4 yrs)... and reinventing myself (I like to think I am always under construction) .... Thru trial and error, I have grown to discover some of what I enjoy and what I do not in queerdom. Somewhat eclectic, a cuddler and romantic (I am a touchy feely kind of guy). With both a wholesome personality (Vanilla - low maintenance) and a wild side (I like to go out dancing every now and then to get my ya-ya`s out). Am easy to get along with, being a nurturer by nature ... (fabulous by choice - wink) .. am a masculine soul who is not afraid to show my weaker moments and honor moments shared that are entrusted to me. I like to keep an open mind and an open heart with those I am sensitive to. I am not a cowboy, but am every bit country, country at heart and identify with the values. Physically, some describe me as an otter. I10d to be attracted to other otters and light weight bears. I feel most comfortable in denim and a T and yes ..... cowboy drag when occasion rises. I am not into anything non consensual and have no f*t!sh that I am aware of .... unless my attraction for a dominant, assertive, mature, healthy, ruggedly handsome man with a high sex drive is considered? Learning that life can turn on a dime I appreciate instants, moments and seasons in time, ultimately hoping in meeting the man whose heart and life together are meant to share and whose beings, our gift to each other.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural - N - E - Winnipeg River,
ManitobaCANADA
2.
Hopeless romantic in search of true love I’m a versatile, honest, adaptable, caring and romantic man, who enjoys travelling all over the world and trying new things. I consider Life as a gift and try to embrace each day with a sense of gratitude, being Love the ultimate goal.
Age: 40 |
seeks gay dating in
Barcelona,
BarcelonaSPAIN
3.
friendship, dating.........LTR I`m lovin life now and want to share it with someone ... An interesting secure job in Manhattan.... a bungalow at the Jersey Shore and a home in the beautiful country of NE Pennsylvania. I love being in the country, working on my old house, clearing wood, gardening, Snow, Skiing, Having Barn Sales, Ending the day with a Bonfire or getting cozy and familiar on the floor in front of the fireplace. Looking for an honest someone who embraces life in spite of their banged up baggage. Who knows maybe my baggage matches yours or I have that1 missing piece that is just the right size. Louis Viutton or Target, doesn`t matter... just be real.
Age: 50 |
seeks gay dating in
At The Shore Near Sandy Hook,
New York City Suburbs,
New Jersey (NJ)
USA
4.
I am looking for someone to love me as I am.... I am a simply complex person and I have many goals and aspirations. If you speak to any of my friends they will say, He sees the positive in life, or at least strives to, and keeps himself completely optimistic throughout all obstacles in life. I always try to see the beauty in the most mundane of things, and see poetry in others’ eyes. I see myself as not a consequence of my own actions, but as a result of the love of others. Many have a misconstrued understanding of commitment and love. If you have read this far then here is what I seek in a match: For the most part right now I seem to want to run across the person that understands me, who knows why I choose1 star out of billions to adore or why I smile at the most random times. He will definitely be a blessing to my life and I am so ready to see where a relationship can take us. We will share so many of the same interests, hobbies, and qualities. I understand him and he understands me. For such a long time I have been setting myself up for disappointment after disappointment, and now after a long wait I am ready to have him in my life. I have been so patient to have that someone in my life that I have longed, and needed. He will have a special place in my heart and he surely will know who he is... The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company...a home...a person. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past...we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the1 thing we have, and that is our attitude...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it! Although we may not like, much less feel love toward, everyone we meet, we can at least try to be kind and courteous to those people we don’t instinctively like. We can reflect that these people are also looking for happiness and trying to avoid suffering, just like ourselves. In this way, although we still may not like them, it is easier to act pleasantly toward them and to avoid creating any negative karma. Developing the habit of being kind and loving towards others creates the karma for us to find love and happiness ourselves...
Also I am NOT deaf and do not know much sign language but am very eager to learn and love the right person....
Age: 23 |
seeks gay dating in
Moncks Corner,
Charleston,
South Carolina (SC)
USA
5.
Id like to meet a guy aged 21 to 45 for dating and-panionship. Youre ideally nice, in shape, casual. Id like to meet a guy aged 21 to 45 for dating and companionship. You`re ideally nice, in shape, casual. Extra plus for guys who are retro, like levis corduroys and guys who wear braces on their teeth.
Age: 33 |
seeks gay dating in
Lowell,
All,
Massachusetts (MA)
USA
6.
Looking to connect with spiritual guys A guy that can hold a light to deep conversation. In shape and not afraid to embrace life
Age: 36 |
seeks gay dating in
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
7.
Twisted leather slave to submit body, mind and soul to dark MASTER. Slave craves to be found worthy Twisted leather slave to submit body, mind and soul to dark MASTER. Slave craves to be found worthy to wear the collar of such a MASTER, to fulfill a MASTER’S desires for sex and ritual,and to learn to embrace his Master’s god. Slave knows his destiny to serve, satisfy and obey through his ownership, submission and control by a MASTER.
For others who love leather, like slaves and boys into leather, as well as others with strong leather fetishes who enjoy talking about leather, feel free to initiate a chat here any time. Alternatively, connecting to discuss mutual leather interests works, too.
Believe me or not, I’m still a virgin which makes me NEGATIVE!
Age: 20 |
seeks gay dating in
Lancaster,
Pennsylvania (PA)
USA
8.
Relaxed, Happy, fun and sexy both inside and out, draws me to your flame. I prefer an athletic, sane, muscular, smart fella who will enjoy long passionate embrace I hope is in my future. embraces with best guy.
I am looking for a Canadian in Canada period. Thanks, Will
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Niagara Region,
Niagara,
OntarioCANADA
9.
A cute energetic, trained bisexual sissy cuckold Very svbm!ss!v* 1 of the girls type guys, looking for an assertive lady for alternative lifestyle relationship. I am a cuckold, and I think I am the best. Have been cheated on and cuckolded most of my life, and now I embrace it in order to be the best. I am very happy-go lucky, and will keep you laughing and smiling. Hoping for a girlfriends type relationship, but closer and more intimate. I have a thing for women who love black men or “BBC”, but then again everyone knows that is so hot! (winks) I ADORE Assertive, demanding bossy women
Age: 39 |
seeks gay dating in
Magnolia Near Fairgrounds,
Knoxville,
Tennessee (TN)
USA
10.
Im here, what are your other two wishes? What up guys, Im Andreas. a 28 yr old army brat born in Germany, but grew up in the south. Im a city boy, but a country boy at heart. mixed with German and Black. Im a very eclectic nice guy who is very silly, I have a huge heart, down to earth, intelligent, trustworthy, honest, and I luv to make people smile. Im the kind of friend that would give you the shirt off my back if you needed it.A man of my word, I do what I say and say what I mean. Simple things in life make me happy. I dont concern myself with material things or really care for individuals who are materialistic or shallow.
This profile is merely a microcosm of who i am, so dont cheat yourself out of meeting a great guy cause you think we dont have everything in common. I am a multifaceted, my interests are wider than the ocean.
I am a HUGE sports fan (GO HEELS, PANTHERS, AND CANES). I also enjoy fishing, tearing up dance floors, all kinds of music, Flea markets, concerts and festivals, museums, photography, travel, southern cooking, swimming, shooting pool, camping, movies, working out, singing, writing, and throwing back some brews with good friends.I have decided to learn how to play the acoustic guitar, violin, and saxaphone, take professional dance lessons, and after that I will dab in martial arts. So, I am all over the place as u can see.Very outgoing and I am usually the life of the party, but I do also have a shy home body side I also embrace. I live life to the fullest and know how to have a good time.I am a bit of a hopeless romantic and I treat others how I want to be treated. I love to laugh and I always try to find the brighter side of life. I feel I am a well rounded person. I dont discriminate against anyone so feel free to drop me a line. Looking for friends that possess good character and big cuddly bears to get my hands on. lol. Big fan of country guys, Cowboys, stocky and beefy guys, short guys, muscular and athletic men, and of course hairy men, but you dont have to be1 of these men to win me over. Hit me up Fellas and I promise you a lot of laughs. Thanx
Qoutes:
I have loved thee with an everlasting love, therefore with loving kindness I have drawn thee
There is no knowledge that is not power
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words
There is a hero in all of us
If you dont go for what you want, you will never have it
If you dont ask, the answer is always no
If you dont step foward youre always in the same place
Impossible is nothing
Age: 28 |
seeks gay dating in
Raleigh,
Raleigh,
North Carolina (NC)
USA
11.
Bodybuilder seeks same for workouts/friendship ABOUT ME:
Friendly, discreet, approachable & masculine amateur bodybuilder looking for local musclebuds for mutual workouts and fun times. Competitive bodybuilders who can help me step up my game and compete a plus!
I think internet profiles, email and chat are great means of introduction but beyond that I’m not interested in strictly virtual relationships - I’m a warm, affectionate and tactile man who prefers his muscular men in the flesh, the here & the now. I’m a lover, not a writer!
ABOUT MY PHOTOS:
These are old photos, showing how I looked after just5 months of lifting. Resumed bodybuilding aggressively in Jan. ’09 with an eye towards competing but aggravated an old foot fracture (cuboid) and tore a deltoid and bicep, so I’m now so out of shape and unphotogenic it’s the stuff of tabloid fodder. To make matters worse my podiatrist’s telling me to cut all cardio outside of lap swim forever, and my orthopedist says I should never do heavy overhead lifts again. Anyone out there I can commiserate with? Hope to resume a safer and saner training regime shortly so I can strut my stuff again come fall. Till then I’ll have to skate by on my charm.
SOME RANDOM OBSERVATIONS:
It’s cheaper to embrace than replace.
Faces fall, but a bicep’s forever.
On social networking: I’m a lover, not a writer.
I have the body of a Greek god...Dionysus!
A personal trainer is someone who works for your lunch money.
Parents are now living long enough to be a disappointment to their children.
Twenty years in Manhattan and I’ve yet to hear a cell phone conversation worth eavesdropping on.
On Long Island: All roads lead to Fortunoff and Who says taste and Long Island are mutually exclusive?
If lesbians are so humorless why are so many of them comedians?
Sometimes only a dog can stand its master’s company.
I used to pride myself on my morality, but if they had smoke-free bars and internet in my day I’d have been such a whore!
Don’t call someone out on their shit unless they’re your friend.
Those that hate...masturbate.
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
Huntington,
Long Island,
New York (NY)
USA
12.
Possibly mad yet sane and grounded Dreamer I`m on a never ending quest for love, or at least a relationship, and while I`ve plenty of dates never a relationship. I`m looking for a friendship that can develop into more. Exceptionally tired of the casual hookup scene. Sex is a great part of a relationship, but there`s more than just great sex. Great conversation, great dreams, and great destinies. But let`s start as friends.
I love to debate and hold intellectually stimulating conversation, either on the couch or in a bar. Never mind the location, let`s converse passionately about a topic close to you. You`ll impress me more with intellectual intercourse and confidence than anything else.
I want someone who embraces his fears and tries to conquer them instead of letting fear control his life and action, because I try and do the same. I would love to find someone who isn`t afraid to discuss the harder topics in life that lead to a relationship, and most importantly isn`t afraid to grow as a person through honesty. These days that can be a very scary word.
I`m attracted to alpha males, who knows what he wants and knows different paths to getting there. Someone as much of a dreamer as I am while still trying to maintain ties to reality. But most importantly, someone who wants to face the world, chase big dreams and conquer fears and will provide that same kind of support.
Age: 22 |
seeks gay dating in
Atlanta,
Georgia (GA)
USA
13.
SEEKING MY SOULMATE 6"0, 193Lbs, Rican and Cherokee Indian, 43, and smooth all over except on top,I am a distinguished looking, focused, sexy, football linebacker-type, who`s a great listener, a playful, caring, supportive friend, and a sensual, passionate lover. Intimate companions are usually drawn to my warm, magnetic charm, my reassuring bear hugs, and my exciting deep kisses. I especially like to cozy-up in my backyard star gazing... or cuddle-up next to the fireplace, or, on the sofa while listening to some relaxing music or watching a movie on the Television.
Energetic and all-masculine... 42, well educated, and an accomplished professional. I love engaging conversations, enthusiastic banter, and learning from friendly and candid exchanges of views and experiences. I also enjoy watching pro-football, baseball and sci-fi films (Star Trek especially)...taking in the live theatre,spending quality time friends and family.strolling on some soulful walks along the beach or in the mountains (especially when it snows!). Other fun activities include drives along the majestic Pacific coast, romps around amusement parks, dining at home or out and about, 70s-80s tunes (including Latin, jazz, new age, R&B), and utilizing ANY soothing musical or natural sounds which inspire my skillful hands to offer the most incredible romantic massages and sensual body rubs!
I am overall all, a down to earth regular guy, who`s mature, monogamous, kind and supportive. a very private MAN, ever discreet...and just looking for some good friends to chat with when the time permits.
Finally... if YOU embrace God, spiritual values and truly live your life accordingly, (...through your words and deeds), then you`ve truly found a kindred spirit!
Friends that i am seeking:
someone who has a life, is happy with your chosen path, is genuinely friendly, and likes being around like-minded people of all cultures. You have outgrown close-minded thinking, labels and emphasizing preferences for "GWM/GBM/etc." Instead...you appreciate the uniqueness, depth, and MASCULINE attractiveness of all "quality men."
MAJOR PLUSES: Strong and committed religious/spiritual beliefs and practices, the ability to relate to and enjoy sports comaraderie with gay and/or straight world friends,
MAJOR NO-NOs:
Drug use...mind games...bed hopping, using others, lying, and partner sharing. The right man for you will gladly want to offer his "quality" attention in return as well.
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Loundon County,
All,
Virginia (VA)
USA
14.
Looking for fun and smiles Looking to contact good looking people. I have recently embraced my sexuality and want to learn and enjoy what life has to offer!
Age: 40 |
seeks gay dating in
Suburbs,
Kansas City,
Missouri (MO)
USA
15.
Love Life and cherish It
I am gentle, kind and passionate man, full of Integrity and Being Responsible for myself and my life. My mind, heart and soul desires to be met by that special person of a similar awareness, of a similar compassionate energy,1 who is able to walk her talk and knows that what we Believe in, what we do, think, and feel is how we create our lives.I`m looking for a woman with a strong capacity to love and be loved. Kind, her warm heart is evident in the way she treats those least important to her. A fun, playful woman who can embrace adult responsibilities without ever completely growing up and losing the little girl inside. Has some bubble in her personality. In touch with her feelings and emotionally healthy. Has a colorful personality and enjoys romance. Of strong mind, an intellectual with a desire to learn and a curiosity about the world.If you would like to E me you can at east lover coast at Y SITE,Looking for someone special who can be honest with herself & Me,You will find me generous in giving myself to you and easy to chat with on that first date. Finally, I am a gentleman and chivalry is important..
Age: 53 |
seeks gay dating in
Addsion,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
16.
Attempting to find what`s GREAT! I look forward to finding and spending my life with a guy…
•who’s come into his own developing an easy-going maturity that includes the practice of authentic integrity and compassion, and the deep understanding of the joy those values afford.
•whose confident and unmistakable sense of grace and decorum happily and generously allows for the feelings and consideration of others, without condescension or fear; naturally inviting others to be comfortable and authentic in his presence.
•who’s “real”; someone to whom open and authentic communication isn’t a threat. Nothing’s hidden, because nothing has to be.
•who’s a gentle soul; someone who hates violence of any kind; whether real, portrayed, or perceived.
•who’s a sincere Christian man. I’m a Christian man, and though it’s definitely not a “deal breaker” as far as a friendships, in a committed partnership I want to be with someone of a similar spirituality sensibility; someone who welcomes the opportunity to study, worship, and pray together with me.
•who honestly enjoys all the performing arts: music, drama, dance…
•who has a terrific sense of humor! You know, someone with a light and jocular sensibility toward life, and who isn’t intimidated or threatened by the humor of others – however ill placed, misconceived, or awkwardly delivered, unless it’s demeaning or violent. They could perhaps even be a stand-up or improv-type performer professionally or for fun.
•who enjoys preparing a meal with me; and, indeed, anticipates and gets excited about sharing that not only between ourselves, but with others as well. I can think of very little that would be more romantic than to be with a friend and/or partner like that. Some who’s an authentically good host!
•who loves all the holidays… but especially Christmas and all the hope and light that time of years evokes. Giving more than receiving.
•who is committed to and embraces the creation and sustenance of a relationship of abundant JOY!
Age: 57 |
seeks gay dating in
Holden Heights,
Orlando,
Florida (FL)
USA
17.
to date, dinners, concerts, movies, gym work outs, int`l travel, etc... to date, dinners, concerts, movies, gym work outs, int`l travel, etc...You are masculine and Mature, You are taller than me , You weigh more than me You wear a size 12 or larger shoe Your on top of your game and your ready to embrace a monogamous long term relationship
Age: 39 |
seeks gay dating in
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
18.
Straightforward, respectful and easy on the eyes. I am valued for my sincerity and optimism. I can o Straightforward, respectful and easy on the eyes. I am valued for my sincerity and optimism. I can only be who I am so I set NO expectations... NO disappointments! I am open minded and would appreciate a degree of candor and respect to anyone who says hi. When you bring out the animal in me, brace yourself cause it ain`t gonna be an ordinary ride!
Age: 40 |
seeks gay dating in
Odessa Midland,
Texas (TX)
USA
19.
Yin seeking Yang. Hey. I guess I should start off with a little about myself. I am a masculine, intellectual yet grounded guy who enjoys learning and trying new things. In fact, I can be a little nerdly, but I do have a fashion sense on which friends have successfully relied. In addition, I am a professional who works south of the City, which means that I sometimes have to work long hours on top of my commute. But I do not let work rule my life, and I do make time to enjoy life because, otherwise, what am I working for. My friends have described me as funny, responsible, confident, loyal, compassionate and generous. I am all of these and more to those I care about and love.
I`ve lived in Boston, Honolulu, Philadelphia and Seattle, but San Francisco is the place I call home. I just recently moved back to the Bay Area, so I am looking to meet new friends, but my primary purpose in posting this ad is to meet guys for a potential relationship. That said, I do not have a U-Haul truck waiting out back. I am looking to take it slow, because I firmly believe that friendship is the foundation for a strong romantic relationship. So, if you are just looking for a quick hook-up, I`m not your guy; I`ve had more than my share of1-night stands, and I have never found them fulfilling.
How do I spend my free time? I go to the gym about 3-4 times per week...not a gym rat, just wanting to be in shape. Now that the sun has returned, I enjoy being outside...exploring new neighborhoods, lounging at a park (when the temperature permits), or just sitting outdoors at a coffee shop. I would love to explore more of wine country -- trying new vineyards or hiking among the redwoods. I love dance music, disco music, as well as opera (though lately not as much) and different non-U.S. music (e.g., celtic, Indian, middle eastern). I also enjoy movies, particularly action and sci-fi films.
What traits or attributes do I find attractive? I am attracted to masculine guys who are secure in their masculinity. Physically, I find shorter, stockier guys more attractive than taller, leaner guys and muscles more attractive than flab...but, in the end, it`s all a matter of chemistry. Emotionally, I am looking for someone who is generous with those he loves, who is spontaneous and fun-loving, who embraces his inner child and who can be a rock on those few days when things get rough. A healthy sex life is also important to me, and I am looking for a guy who enjoys sex as a way to explore each other and each other`s bodies and bring pleasure to both of us. With regard to HIV, I am HIV-negative and looking for the same. I have had2 POZ boyfriends in the past, and while I support my POZ brothers, I`d like to keep my romantic life less complicated. Finally, but no less important, I am looking for a guy who effectively communicates his feelings and desires; without good communication, how can we build a life together where we are both truly happy?
If you made it this far and you`re still interested, then go ahead and send me a message! We can meet over coffee, keep it chill, and take it from there. I look forward to hearing from you.
Age: 36 |
seeks gay dating in
San Francisco,
California (CA)
USA
20.
THE COOK, THE CREEP, HIS LOVER & HER SISTER. if you know where that is from, definately get in touch b/c you rock! just a few basics .i graduated from UT-Austin w/ my BBA in marketing, i manage a tanning salon, strawberry marguaritas w/ salt kick ace (pineapple juice and vanilla vodka is good too), i love curling up to watch a great drama (a favorite movie is `the talented mr. ripley`), i REALLY love all natural peanut butter, i don`t sleep around and i really don`t like gay bars, coffee shops rule, and i really want to see the new movie, "the day after tomorrow." other than that, i am a hopeless romantic who yearns to embrace that1 match. i was once told that i would meet my soul mate this year; his name starts w/ the letter k, has dark hair/light eyes and was born in ninteen8y. if you`re reading this and think that could be you, don`t be too shy to say hi. oh yeah...not into x-rated photos and such...i just want a NICE guy that i can get to know.
Age: 22 |
seeks gay dating in
South,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
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